Tobin, John H. – Fred H. McGrath & Son, Inc.

With immense love and profound sadness, the family of John H. Tobin shares that he passed away on November 22nd, surrounded by his beloved wife and children. John faced his illness with the same courage, humor, and grace that defined his life, and he left this world with the people he cherished most by his side.

John is predeceased by his devoted parents, Edward and Mary Tobin, and by his sister, Mary Francis Tobin. He is survived by his loving wife, Patricia P. Tobin, and his adoring children—Molly (Carson Milner), Liam, Sean, and Rory—who were the great joy and pride of his life. He also leaves behind his siblings, Gerard Tobin(Michelle), Sally McCarthy, and Kathy Tobin, along with many nieces and nephews; his Poole in-laws, who welcomed him with open arms from a young age; and countless treasured friends from every chapter of his life.

Anyone who knew John will forever remember his unwavering devotion to family, his unforgettable sense of humor and one-of-a-kind colloquialisms, and his remarkable gift for storytelling. His wit, warmth, and ability to make people feel seen and loved will live on in the memories of all who were fortunate enough to know him.

Born and raised in Massachusetts, John attended St. Joseph’s School in Needham, Catholic Memorial High School in West Roxbury, and Fordham University. Though he built a successful career in finance and spent nearly forty years in New York, he never stopped proudly calling himself a Bostonian.

While John cherished the friendships he made throughout his life, his true passion—and the heart of his life—was his family. Nothing brought him more joy than time spent with his children: on the ski slopes, at the beach, on the sidelines of soccer, baseball, and basketball games, or simply gathered together at home. He loved a fine cigar, a good biography, and could quote a line from nearly any movie.

John will be remembered for his extraordinary writing, quick wit, and the boundless love he shared so freely. His presence, his voice, and his laughter will be deeply missed, but the legacy he leaves—in the people he loved and who loved him—will endure forever.

In lieu of flowers donations may be made in memory of John to A.E.S. Crestwood Foundation.

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Condolences(9)

raymond baker says
November 22, 2025 at 11:17 pm

I am so sorry to hear this. John was such a great person as well as a great family man. H will be missed dearly.
Brad & Cat says
November 23, 2025 at 7:59 am

John was a wonderful person. Great husband and father. He will be missed.
MOHAMED says
November 23, 2025 at 12:28 pm

I’m so sorry for your lost
He was a wonderful man to everyone.

My condolences to you and the entire families and friends, may his soul rest in peace and God grant him paradise
Brianna Yaeger says
November 23, 2025 at 12:38 pm

Mr. Tobin was such a light in our world and I will never forget how passionate of a coach and leader he was. He inspired all of the people he knew with his positivity. May he rest in peace
Maria & Alex Birr says
November 23, 2025 at 5:19 pm

Our hearts are breaking for you all. We are so very, very sorry for your loss. Keeping you all in our prayers and sending love and hugs to all who loved him. May God bless you and may He keep you in His tender care.
Michael McCabe says
November 23, 2025 at 6:01 pm

So sorry for your loss. John was a great guy. Friendly, engaging, and interested in and caring for others.
Karen Gregory says
November 23, 2025 at 6:44 pm

My sincere condolences to the entire family 🙏🙏
Mary Tomkins says
November 25, 2025 at 10:21 am

My deepest sympathies to you all on this immense loss. John was such a lovely person. May he Rest in Eternal Peace. Sincerest condolences, Mary, Aidan and Cara Tomkins.
John's P.T. Jerome says
November 26, 2025 at 9:49 pm

John, is such a wonderful man. He is a person with many smiles. A smart and humorous person. John you are loved and the world lost a good, honest, intelligent and loving man.
As I have mentioned we are all in line its just so happened you were ahead of all of us.
To Trish and family. my heart is with you.
Sorry I will not be around during the Friday’s wake but I m always there in spirit. Love you all.

Tobin, John H. March 3, 1968 - November 22, 2025

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