Thomas E. La Sala of Pelham, New York, passed away
suddenly on March 3, 2026, at the age of 72. Born on May 4,
1953, in New York City, Thomas was a distinguished real
estate professional, sports enthusiast, and above all, a
devoted family man.
A proud alumnus of Fordham University, Thomas graduated
in 1975 before earning his law degree from Fordham Law
School in 1978. These formative years launched a
successful real estate career in his family’s business
spanning over four decades. His professional legacy is
perhaps best exemplified by his role as the lead real estate
developer for the construction of the Monarch condominium
on New York’s Upper East Side in 1986. He later managed
the building with the same dedication he applied to all his
endeavors. For Thomas, the family business of real estate
was at the center of his professional life.
Beyond his career, Thomas was a man of vibrant character
and warmth. He possessed a wonderful sense of humor and
a happy demeanor. An avid golfer, he was a proud member
of the Westchester Country Club for over thirty years. His
loyalty was steadfast, particularly regarding the New York
Football Giants, for whom he was a fanatical lifelong season
ticket holder. He was also a man of intellect who loved
history and political science, finding great joy in discussing
these topics with his family.
Together with his older brother Steve, he financially
supported Fordham Law’s Feerick Center for Social Justice.
Pet rescue and animal welfare charities were also causes
dear to his heart. He was a figure his loved ones could
always depend on, always full of good cheer and exuding
warmth, care, and love. Thomas is survived by his beloved wife of 45 years, Carrie
La Sala; his daughter, Erica La Sala; his two sons, Thomas
J. La Sala and Adam La Sala and his brother, Stephen La
Sala and sister, Elena Barnabei. He is predeceased by his
mother, Helen La Sala, and his father, A. Stephen La Sala.
He leaves behind a legacy of hard work, generosity, and an
enduring love for his family.
A Memorial Mass will be at 11am on Friday March 13th at
Our Lady of Perpetual Help in Pelham, NY. Please consider
making a donation in his name to either the ASPCA or Pet
Rescue New York.
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Tom La Sala says
March 6, 2026 at 6:04 pmThe best Dad a son could ever have. We will miss you greatly.
Katie Crecion says
March 6, 2026 at 8:59 pmUncle Tom meant so much to us all. He was such a loving presence in our family, and his kindness and warmth touched everyone who knew him. I will carry his memory and the love he gave us in my heart always.
david rivlin says
March 7, 2026 at 5:52 pmI spent many years on the board of the Monarch Condominium and Tom was the glue that made the building a big success. its cruel that he left us at such a young age but he was the embellishment of the best building manage I have had in my lifetime. rest in peace, you have earned it
Leonora Rodriguez-Chomat says
March 9, 2026 at 1:42 pmTom was a wonderful human being, gracious and a loving husband. I know he’ll be missed all that knew him. May Tom rest in peace.
Jon Gordon says
March 18, 2026 at 1:05 pmTom was the quintessential gentleman real estate professional, who was very gracious to me when I first started in the industry which I’ll never forget.
Will miss running into him walking around Bronxville, and wish his family peace in their grieving.
Wishing Tom’s family
Charley Polachi says
March 18, 2026 at 5:28 pmTom was a great PMHS friend. We spent many hours together solving world problems, discussing the Giants and laughing. A good man gone too soon. Sending strength and love to his family.