Raymond Farrelly, of Tuckahoe, formerly of Bronxville, where he was a parishioner of Saint Joseph’s Church, passed away on May 26, 2022.
Survived by his loving wife of 55 years, Mary Sheila (Baxter) and his three children Sheila (Ken McGrath), Raymond, and Susan (Lee Gottfried). Also survived by his brother Eugene. Predeceased by his parents, Mary Josephine and Eugene originally from County Cavan, Ireland, and longtime residents of the Bronx, and his brother Francis.
Ray was raised in the Bronx and attended St John’s School in Kingsbridge. He was a graduate of Fordham Preparatory School, Fordham University, and Fordham Law School. He was a lifelong fan of Fordham Rams basketball; he attended many games on campus, often with his wife, Sheila, or his children. When he couldn’t attend in person, he enthusiastically refereed games from the couch. Ray enjoyed golf, gardening, and music. He loved to eat and cook Italian food. Tomatoes were planted on schedule annually, enjoyed profusely, and shared with neighbors—just one example of the generosity he practiced daily.
Perhaps most of all, Ray loved spending time chatting and joking with friends and family. He will be remembered for his quick wit and great storytelling; he loved to laugh and to spread levity.
Ray was a lawyer in private practice for over 25 years before taking a position as law secretary in New York State Supreme Court.
Ray and his wife Sheila enjoyed traveling to Ireland and celebrating the Irish in New York at the Saint Patrick’s Day parade. He was a member of the Cavan P&B Association.
A wake will be held at Fred H. McGrath funeral home in Bronxville on Tuesday, May 31st from 4-8 pm. Funeral Mass will be at Saint Joseph’s Church in Bronxville on Wednesday, June 1st at 10:45 am. Memorial contributions may be made to Fordham Preparatory School.
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Mary C. Tully says
May 29, 2022 at 11:16 amDear SheIla and Family I am so sorry for your loss! May he rest in peace. Mary Tully and Family
Liam & Kathleen Coyle (Co. Cavan) says
May 30, 2022 at 1:36 pmVery sorry to hear of Ray’s passing RIP.. Had the pleasure of knowing him & his parents for many years. He was one of life’s true gentlemen.
Frank McLaughlin says
May 30, 2022 at 3:00 pmRAY was a LOYAL SON OF FORDHAM !! RAY was ALWAYS SUPPORTIVE ! GOD BLESS RAY AND HIS FAMILY ! RIP
Joan Finnegan says
May 30, 2022 at 6:13 pmSorry to hear of Ray’s death RIP. Sincere sympathy to you Sheila and all your family. We always enjoyed Ray’s company, he had a welcome smile and great since of humor. He will be sadly missed. Your dear friends Joan & Danny
Patricia Lincoln says
May 31, 2022 at 2:37 pmDear Sheila and family,
I was so saddened to hear of “Ray Farrelly”‘ (as he was always referred to by my mom and dad) passing. My parents thought the world of both of you and always enjoyed your company. Ray was a huge help at many times, for many things. I am keeping all of you in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Patricia
Tomás Mag Shamhrain says
June 2, 2022 at 1:05 pmSorry for your loss Sheila and family, Ann gave me the sad news yesterday, you are all in our thoughts and prayers at this time, may God bless you.
Shaun clancy says
December 25, 2022 at 8:37 amSheila,so sorry not only to hear about Raymond’s passing but also for not knowing sooner