Carter, Icilma K. January 7, 1936 - January 2, 2025

Sunrise: July 18, 1936

Sunset: January 2, 2025

With humble acceptance of God’s will, we celebrate the life of Icilma Kathleen Carter.  She was a remarkable woman who touched the lives of many. Born to the late Neville Reid and Charlotte Ambrose in St. John’s, Antigua, Icilma embarked on a journey that would see her nurture and care for countless individuals throughout her life.

She attended the Spring Gardens Moravian Church, her early education was at the Moravian School and her subsequent graduation from Princess Margaret School marked the beginning of a lifelong commitment to healing others. She trained and worked as a registered nurse and midwife at the Holberton Hospital in Antigua. Her passion for nursing was not just a career but an aspiration she pursued with dedication.

Icilma immigrated to the United States in the mid 1960’s. At this point she heralded new beginnings, both personally and professionally. She moved to the Bronx and later resided in Mt. Vernon and then Bronxville, New York with her family. She worked diligently at Bronx-Lebanon Hospital for 35 years, offering compassionate care and expertise that made a significant impact on her patients and colleagues. It was in New York she found love and companionship with Henry Carter, with whom she shared 46 years. In her retirement, she continued her service as a part-time school nurse in Riverdale, New York City.

Icilma played a dynamic role not only as a member but also as an Elder of the First Presbyterian Church in Mt Vernon, New York. Icilma actively participated in various organizations, such as the Caribbean Club of her church, the All-Island Association and the Caribbean Nurses Association. Her involvement in NAMI highlighted her commitment to mental health awareness and support.

Icilma is survived by her son Ron, daughter Robyn, stepson Devon, son-in-law Seyit, her brother Peter Boatswain, her nieces and nephews Kathleen Prince, Carol, Eustace and Patrick Griffith, her cousin Kenneth Davis and numerous friends and associates. She was pre-deceased by her beloved Henry and several siblings Hal Joseph, Cuthbert Adams, Ella Grannum and Isalyn Griffith.  Icilma’s spirit lives on in the memories and stories shared with those who knew her.

Known for her quiet elegance and graceful demeanor, her dry wit and English humour and her unwavering defense of her family, Icilma’s legacy is one of strength, compassion, and devotion to nursing and caregiving. Her life’s work in the community, her presence at gatherings and barbeques, have left an indelible mark on the hearts of all who knew her.

As we remember Icilma today, may we celebrate the life of a woman whose kindness and dedication enriched our lives and whose memory will continue to inspire us.