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O’Toole, Mary (Kelly) March 4, 1951 - August 4, 2022

Mary (nee Kelly) O’Toole from Crestwood, N.Y. died on Thursday, August 4th at the age of 71.  Mary was born March 4, 1951 in the Bronx, N.Y., daughter of the late James and Rachel Kelly, both of Ireland. Mary attended Our Lady of Refuge Elementary School where she met Donald, her beloved husband of 47 years. Mary was extremely proud of her nursing degree and her time serving patients at Jacobi Medical Center. After they wed on March 22, 1975 Mary and Donald made homes in the Bronx, Hartsdale, and Evanston, Illinois before settling down in Crestwood where Mary was an active member of the Annunciation parish and community.  Mary made the most perfect (and spotless) home for her family and was a devoted mother and the biggest cheerleader for her four children Brianne (Emmet) Donnelly, Mara (Jim) Briggs, Patrick (Erin) and Conor.  Dedicated    “Mom” to Molly and Rory and “Granma” to Camdyn; beloved sister to Kathy (George) Elliot and wonderful cousin, aunt and friend to many. Mary was pre-deceased by her brothers Jimmy, Joe, Tommy, and Colin. Viewing will be held at Fred H. McGrath & Son Inc. Funeral Home on Sunday, August 7th from 3-7pm and Monday, August 8th from 4-8pm. Mass of the Christian Burial takes place on Tuesday, August 9th at 11:30am, followed by interment at Gate of Heaven Cemetery, Hawthorne. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to All Hallows High School in honor of Mary O’Toole (www.allhallows.org).

Calling Hours: 3 to 7 pm, Sunday, August 7, 2022 and 4 to 8 pm, Monday, August 8, 2022

Mass: 11:30 am, Tuesday, August 9, 2022 at Annunciation Church, Crestwood

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In Lieu of Flowers: Donations can be made in honor of Mary O'Toole to All Hallows High School



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    Shelia Coughlan says

    Mary, my dear friend, may you Rest In Peace. Love is forever – you will always be in my heart.

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    Deirdre. Molloy says

    To Donald and Family
    We were so sorry to hear Mary had passed away. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Mary held a special place in a Bill’s heart. I know here pain and suffering is now over. May she Rest In Peace ❤️🙏❤️

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    Anne & Don Heffern says

    Donald and family…so sorry to hear about Mary’s passing. May she Rest In Peace. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

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    Rosemary Keenan says

    Dearest Donald and family, I am deeply saddened by the passing of Mary my cousin. I have many lovely memories of Mary, she was a lady in all ways. I wish you all great strength in the coming days. Love from Rosemary and family Holland

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    Melissa Burgin says

    Donald, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. May your beloved wife Rest in Peace.

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    Harvey Saxer says

    My thoughts and prayers are with Donald and all who knew and loved Mary. May she rest in peace.

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    Mike Kissane says

    Donald and Family: so sorry to hear of Mary’s passing. May Mary Rest In Peace. Love, Bernadette and Mike Kissane and family

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    A Friend says

    A lovely Lady…. A good friend. Always with a smile and a kind word. A caring and loving Mother and Wife. The Annunciation Parish family has a huge void. May she Rest In Peace. Sincere Sympathy to all her Family.

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    Carmel & Patrick Mangan says

    We are so sorry to hear of Mary’s passing. Condolences to all the family. May she Rest In Peace.

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    Nancy McGarry McGrath says

    My sincere condolences for your loss of Mary. She was full of life, fun stories and a smile that could light up the room. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. May she rest in peace.

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    Eileen Byrne says

    Donald and family. So sorry to hear of Mary’s passing. God bless you all

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    Tony & Margaret O'Brien. Ballinrobe, Ireland says

    Sending our deepest and Heartfelt condolences to you Donald and ur family, extended family and friends on the sad passing of Mary rip. Mary was such a lovely , kind & gracious lady, who we will always remember & think about. Rest in enternal peace Mary.🙏❤🌷

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    Lou D'Allesandro says

    We were so sorry to hear your news. Donald, you have always been a wonderful friend and your wife was always part of the team. We have some wonderful memories and are very thankful to have had you and your family in our lives.

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    Séamus & Chris O'Brien, Castlebar, Co Mayo Ireland ☘️☘️ ☘️ says

    Condolences to you Donald, Brianne, Mara & extended family members on the sad passing of Mary, you are all in our thoughts & prayers at this very difficult time. May she rest in eternal peace with the 🙏

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    Richard Keenan says

    Prayerful sympathy to Donald and the O’Toole and Kelly families on the sad passing of Mary RIP. We will cherish many memories of precious times spent with Mary. Be assured that we are holding you in our hearts at this sad time.
    Richard Keenan and Family

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    Siobhan and Arthur Conneely Keller says

    To Donald and his beautiful family, we are keeping Mary in our prayers here in Galway, Ireland and we have lit a candle for her in the Cathedral. We are very sorry for your profound loss.

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    Teresa Morales says

    My deepest condolences go out to the entire family.
    May Mary rest in eternal peace.

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